God did not create man as a “solitary being,” but wanted him to be a “social being” (cf. Gen 1:27; 2:18-20, 23). Life in society is not something “added-on” for the human person; it stems from an important dimension essential to human nature. Human beings can grow and attain their calling in life only in union with others.

Revelation teaches us that human relationships should be marked by a deep futility, since in our neighbor we see, more than an equal, the living image of God, and we have to be ready to give ourselves fully, even to the ultimate extreme, for each one. Therefore, each person is called to exist ‘for’ others, to become a gift serving and loving them. Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble -Ecclesiastes 4: 9-10.

As a species, we are social beings who live out our lives in the company of other humans. We organize ourselves into various kinds of social groupings, such as villages, cities, and countries, in which we work, trade, play, reproduce, and interact in many other ways. Unlike other species, we combine socialization with deliberate changes in social behavior and organization over time. Therefore, a personal and collective effort is needed to develop social relationships correctly. But because of pride and selfishness however, man discovers in himself the seeds of a social behavior and impulses which leads him to close himself within his own individuality and to dominate his neighbor. Hillary Clinton once said in one of her speeches that, “we must stop thinking of the individual and start thinking of what is best for the society”.

Many different human goals exist, as well as bonds that unite people: love, ethnicity, language, country, culture, etc. Therefore, human relationships entail a wide variety of institutions and associations: the family, city, state, international community, etc. Consequently, the question of the relationship between the individual and the society is the starting point of many discussions. It is closely connected with the question of the relationship of man and society and it is in the society that an individual is surrounded and encompassed by culture, as a societal force. Hence, society has become an essential condition for human life to arise and to continue.

While we never reduce the human being to an anonymous element in society, it is good to remember that the integral development of the human person and social progress mutually influence one another. A good person can make another person good. It all means that goodness will elicit goodness in the society and other persons will also be good (Bhumibol Adulyadej)

 It is important to note that some structures are opposed to the right ordering of society and make the practice of virtue more difficult and facilitate personal sins against justice, charity, chastity, etc. These structures may involve widespread immoral customs such as, political and economic corruption or unjust laws.  In this context, a serious effort should be made to undo these unfavorable structures and replace them with just structures for the sake of sanity to reign in the society, so that the society will be morally guided in such a way that they will see the sanctification of their work as a necessity.

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Beatrice Egbuna is an experienced Broadcast Technologist with a strong background in managing broadcast equipment and sound technology. She has played a leading role in building and installing various radio studios, as well as maintaining and repairing both analogue and digital equipment at Voice of Nigeria (VON) studios. Egbuna holds a degree in Mass Communication from the University of Lagos (UNILAG) and the Lagos State University (LASU), and has received training in Audio Engineering from the United States, Germany and the United Kingdom. She also holds certificates in Senior Management Programmes from the Lagos Business School (LBS) and the Administrative Staff College of Nigeria (ASCON), as well as a certificate in Entrepreneurial Management from the Enterprise Development Centre (EDC) of the Pan-Atlantic University (PAU). Prior to joining EDC in 2011, Beatrice worked in various capacities at the Federal Radio Corporation of Nigeria (FRCN) and VON before retiring in 2010 as Deputy Director Programming. She has also worked as a Consultant/Mentor on projects like "Road-to-Growth" powered by Cherie Blair Foundation and Access Bank Plc. Egbuna produced and presented "Enterprise Stories", a live radio program on Inspiration 92.3 FM, which brings entrepreneurs together every Tuesday at 3 pm to share their success stories and inspire startup developers to follow their dreams. She also produced "The Economy and You," a program that aired for about four years on Rhythm 93.7 FM, which brought policymakers, technocrats and successful business executives to discuss government policies and their impact on the economy and businesses in Nigeria. Currently, Beatrice Egbuna is the Principal Consultant at Maluwe Capacity Builders International, Nigeria, where she provides real-time feedback and actionable advice that adds value to her clients. She is also a mentor and faculty member at the Enterprise Development Centre of the Pan-Atlantic University, and a BDSP Consultant on the 5-year (20??-20??) MASTERCARD TRANSFORMING NIGERIA YOUTH PROJECT (TNY). Egbuna is passionate about developing the entrepreneurship ecosystem, providing business support and advisory services to entrepreneurs within and outside the EDC business network for over a decade. She is a certified IFC/LPI Trainer, certified SMEDAN Business Development Service Provider (BDSP), life coach, work-life balance advocate/coordinator, and marriage counsellor who helps employees/career/business people find fulfilment in the workplace, balance in their daily activities, and solutions to their marital challenges. To reach Beatrice Egbuna she can be contacted through her email addresses: bettyegbuna@yahoo.com and maluwehelp@gmail.com. She also has a website, https://momentwithbetty.com.

6 Comments

  • Abe Osoata, December 5, 2021 @ 2:56 pm Reply

    A clarion call for an ideal society to eschew selfishness and put society above individualism. This may sound Utopia era being adivocated for as it were. This essentially is the reason why we are on planet earth to learn to love one another and bear for each other.

    • betty, December 17, 2021 @ 12:37 pm Reply

      You are correct Sir, Thank you for your comment.

  • Matthew Ngwu, December 5, 2021 @ 6:33 pm Reply

    We yearn, we search and we reach out to others to form a group of friends that share our common objectives. We can’t show our cultural, professional, and personal accomplishments in a vacuum. And the moment we realize that fact, we move into a better understanding of what social relationship is all about.

    • betty, December 17, 2021 @ 12:37 pm Reply

      Thanks a lot for your comment Matthew.

  • Derek Ngwu, December 29, 2021 @ 10:04 pm Reply

    This is an incredible piece on human relationships. Yes, we all need our alone time but that doesn’t warrant prolonged periods of isolation. God designed us to have an togetherness attitude. Iron sharpens iron, two is better than one, the more the merrier, etc. There’s honor in receiving and giving help for that what our Creator desires for us to do. We’re in this life together so we might as well lean on one another.

    • betty, January 5, 2022 @ 3:51 pm Reply

      Thank you Derek for taking time to visit this site. God bless you.

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