Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said “Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.” Hebrews 13:5 (NIV)

Do yourself a favor and spend a moment reflecting on the narrative you embrace about yourself. Are you undermining your happiness with the nonstop drive to be exceptional?  We spend most of our lives being exposed to the extraordinary and the exceptional. Our social media timelines consist of accomplishments and milestones. We rarely see the average in the spotlight, instead we witness the greatest of feats, the best of the best, the worst of the worst from the media.

We hear the funniest memes, experience the most upsetting news, the scariest threats, etc. This mass media driven exceptionalism has developed the narrative that being average is failing. Some people are so disgusted with being ordinary that rather than be content with life, they become victims of their own misery, just to be in their own league. Even though the mass majority is in fact not exceptional and extraordinary, we chase it according to societal standards. Let’s be honest, it takes a ridiculous amount of time and dedication to become skillful in a particular craft. So let’s become exceptional at practicing contentment with God in every season. 

Do you realize that God has already made you spiritually enriched? So don’t let the pressures of earthly awards weigh you down. Have you invited Jesus to be the center of your universe? God has supplied us with everything that we need: His grace, His word, and His spirit. Let’s pray for gratitude and contentment in our lives. 

Think of the millions of homeless people or those living under oppression. To them, your “average life” would be described as extraordinary. We see millions of others pointing to the more fortunate, but are blind to the billions of people wanting our lives. It’s all equivocal. However, if we would just relax our mind and body and base our happiness internally and not externally, we wouldn’t succumb to feelings of lack. When we rely on external factors, we’re searching for happiness for what we think it consists of. We should perpetuate our discontentment and free ourselves from such earthly expectations and attachments. Find satisfaction with where you are already. It doesn’t mean that everything will be dandy but it’s enough for now. Accepting Jesus Christ in your life will make it enough. Contentment in every season is the key to happiness.

True contentment is not having everything, but in being satisfied with everything you have -Oscar Wilde

Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for -Epicurus

I can do all things through him who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13

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Beatrice Egbuna is an experienced Broadcast Technologist with a strong background in managing broadcast equipment and sound technology. She has played a leading role in building and installing various radio studios, as well as maintaining and repairing both analogue and digital equipment at Voice of Nigeria (VON) studios. Egbuna holds a degree in Mass Communication from the University of Lagos (UNILAG) and the Lagos State University (LASU), and has received training in Audio Engineering from the United States, Germany and the United Kingdom. She also holds certificates in Senior Management Programmes from the Lagos Business School (LBS) and the Administrative Staff College of Nigeria (ASCON), as well as a certificate in Entrepreneurial Management from the Enterprise Development Centre (EDC) of the Pan-Atlantic University (PAU). Prior to joining EDC in 2011, Beatrice worked in various capacities at the Federal Radio Corporation of Nigeria (FRCN) and VON before retiring in 2010 as Deputy Director Programming. She has also worked as a Consultant/Mentor on projects like "Road-to-Growth" powered by Cherie Blair Foundation and Access Bank Plc. Egbuna produced and presented "Enterprise Stories", a live radio program on Inspiration 92.3 FM, which brings entrepreneurs together every Tuesday at 3 pm to share their success stories and inspire startup developers to follow their dreams. She also produced "The Economy and You," a program that aired for about four years on Rhythm 93.7 FM, which brought policymakers, technocrats and successful business executives to discuss government policies and their impact on the economy and businesses in Nigeria. Currently, Beatrice Egbuna is the Principal Consultant at Maluwe Capacity Builders International, Nigeria, where she provides real-time feedback and actionable advice that adds value to her clients. She is also a mentor and faculty member at the Enterprise Development Centre of the Pan-Atlantic University, and a BDSP Consultant on the 5-year (20??-20??) MASTERCARD TRANSFORMING NIGERIA YOUTH PROJECT (TNY). Egbuna is passionate about developing the entrepreneurship ecosystem, providing business support and advisory services to entrepreneurs within and outside the EDC business network for over a decade. She is a certified IFC/LPI Trainer, certified SMEDAN Business Development Service Provider (BDSP), life coach, work-life balance advocate/coordinator, and marriage counsellor who helps employees/career/business people find fulfilment in the workplace, balance in their daily activities, and solutions to their marital challenges. To reach Beatrice Egbuna she can be contacted through her email addresses: bettyegbuna@yahoo.com and maluwehelp@gmail.com. She also has a website, https://momentwithbetty.com.

4 Comments

  • Matthew Ngwu, January 22, 2022 @ 1:22 pm Reply

    We benefit more when we make Jesus the center of our lives.

    • betty, February 3, 2022 @ 3:35 pm Reply

      Correct, Matthew. You are indeed right

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